El Camino de Santiago de Compostela, a path towards oneself, NOT A VACATION
On the 31st of July, I landed back in Bucharest after 23 days off, spent in Portugal and Spain. This year, I guided a small group of ladies, Ritta Muntean from Alba-Iulia and Corina Dumitrescu from Ploiești, who were willing to walk the Portuguese route of El Camino de Santiago de Compostela. It’s the second time I’ve guided people to walk their journeys toward Santiago de Compostela, and it was, once again, a blessing for me to assist them in fulfilling their dream. I, myself, walked twice, alone, on two of the longest routes to Santiago. The first journey was in 2013, when I started my adventure towards myself in France, at Saint Jean-Pied-De-Port. I left Bucharest with a friend, willing to start together and after some days, to split and have each of us our personal experience on one of the most ancient pilgrimage paths in Christian history. And so it was! After a week or so, the path split, and I ended up walking alone for more than 20 days.






The entire walk lasted for 32 days in a row, and I managed to walk 930 kilometers. I learned so many lessons, but the most important was the validation to myself that Camino is NOT a vacation. The second route I went for was the Portuguese one, starting in Lisbon, and walking 936 kilometers in 27 and ½ days. This time, I was completely alone, and I wanted so badly to walk in solitude that on the first evening in the
Albergue de Peregrinos in Alpriate, I met two ladies, Laura and Kris, and the next morning, Will joined the group. And even if we left the Albergue and went our different ways, we kept meeting again and again on the way. I wanted to walk alone, but El Camino kept its mission. To make me understand a new lesson about myself. The lesson of guiding others just by being present there when they needed the most, with a
word, or an experience, or a personal story, towards a hidden part of themselves.
So, after integrating a new layer of Camino’s magic and after seeing people coming and asking me to guide them on this path, I started to organize small groups of people, willing to transform this dream into reality. And I am speaking here about people who, for personal reasons, don’t feel comfortable starting this journey alone. And this is not something bad. It is an act of courage to accept that you need someone nearby to count on when you need to. I know some former pilgrims disapprove of this approach, yet we should remember that every human being has their own trajectory in this life, and something useful for one could be painful for other people and could defeat the purpose in the end. We are social beings, and most of us learn from direct experience with other people. Some of us learn in solitude like I usually do, but it’s a scientifically proven fact that most people need other people to learn and integrate certain lessons they need to reach their next level of evolution. And this is also OK. It doesn’t mean that they will learn less than the others.



In reality, Camino is a sum of lessons to be learned. Some of them will be integrated there, on the way, others will just raise their head from the snow like a snowdrop in spring, under the sun’s rays. Camino is a door towards the hidden parts of your being. It is a light in the dark and may seem like darkness itself on a sunny day of summer when you feel exhausted, hungry, thirsty, or just emotionally overwhelmed by this new reality that your mind cannot cope with in the beginning.
So, for every soul reading this article, and who fancies walking this magic path, when you start planning your journey, while you’re packing, and even while you’re walking during the first days, just repeat to yourself: CAMINO IS NOT A VACATION! CAMINO IS MY WAY TOWARDS MYSELF. It can be easy, or it can be damn hard. But I will walk it because I am doing it for myself. Not for my family, nor for my closest friends, nor for my followers on social media. Because if you are doing it for others, or for being valued by
other people, you will lose YOUR WAY. And it will become more and more difficult.
As some of the ladies I walked with or I just met on the way this year, said, “Family and friends are looking at the pictures, and they are saying Wow! It’s so beautiful!, but they don’t really know how it feels in reality!” And this is the ugly truth! Nobody will understand why you chose to walk hundreds of kilometers in France, Spain, or Portugal, nobody will feel your pain, your tiredness, your despair in some moments. And nobody but another pilgrim you walk with or meet on the way can relate to your story. Because
when you start crying, she or he can support you with compassion, as she or he was in your shoes
as well as a certain point on this path.
So, walk your path for yourself alone, and allow the way to unveil its magic after a while. Camino is pure alchemy! Just believe in yourself, and keep walking! The results will come to you maybe later, but they will for sure reveal their light to those eyes ready to see it.
If you want to learn more about El Camino’s alchemy and my journeys, I invite you to read my book “The Unstoppable Thirst, El Camino de Santiago de Compostela, an Alchemic Path towards your inner self”! You can find it on Amazon here
BUEN CAMINO through your own lives, everyone!
N.B. The article was published first in WEI 4U Digital Magazine here:







































































































